Keep your life moving forward. Try not to stagnate over a girl, especially if your relationship isn't blossoming. My sister told me that you need to want to be with who the other person is now, and not who they will be. btw being an EMT is sweet! you can become ski patrol and take care of people...
Tell him. For god's sake, It won't do him any good for you to continue to drag it out in order to spare his feelings. **** his feelings, take care of your own.
Ask if he has any good looking friends that are single.
You could say "I met this really great guy, his name is Ted. He's hot and...