****ing Lameness Gah

[jondy]

Really, really ****ed off. Got back from a ****ing stellar gig last night, 300 people moshing upn'down (we're a soul/funk act), got to bed, knew there was a party that I couldn't make to 'cos of aforementioned gig. My new g/f went, and met up with all my friends who've been away in france, who then proceeded to tell them that I was seeing someone else that I'd hooked up with (no commitments) three weeks.

Just got offof the phone to her, and I feel like breaking something- not because of her, she's fine about it- but why the **** would my friends, fresh back from surfing NC France while I've been stuck at home, do this? ****ing hell. Not like I'm dropping them, gotta be some explanation (been seein' this guys from like reception, 1st year for unenglishpeople) but right now, I had to drop the call to my girl because I was getting so worked up inside. Damn.

Sorry, more of a rant than anything, don't really need any questions answered, just really ****ed off.

 

[Chris D]

There may be a good explanation, or one of them was trying to get in there with your girlfriend. I don't really see there being a good explanation on this at all really...

 

[Sulkdodds]

It does sound like whoever said it was trying to pull her away from you.

 

[jondy]

There may be a good explanation, or one of them was trying to get in there with your girlfriend. I don't really see there being a good explanation on this at all really...

Well, I had slept with someone a couple weeks ago, when I wasn't seeing my new g/f. But I didn't carry on seeing her.

 

[Chris D]

There's still no reason for them to tell her anything like that.

 

[G-Dub]

Nar that's just harsh... find out who actually said it, cos chances are they ain't a real friend.

 

[jondy]

Nar that's just harsh... find out who actually said it, cos chances are they ain't a real friend.

That's the thing. This dude is one of my oldest friends.

He's been going through an unbelievable amount of relationship stress from a g/f that was a suicidal, manipulating bitch, and is ****ing bitter about relationships in general, but that doesn't give him precedent to **** everyone else's up.

 

[Greatgat]

That's the thing. This dude is one of my oldest friends.

He's been going through an unbelievable amount of relationship stress from a g/f that was a suicidal, manipulating bitch, and is ****ing bitter about relationships in general, but that doesn't give him precedent to **** everyone else's up.

That may be part of the problem. People bitter about their relationships sometimes try to **** up other peoples'. Kind of a like "If I can't be happy..." thing.

Either way, still sucks man. Best of luck figuring the whole sordid mess out.

 

[jondy]

Cheers. Been doing damage control all morning

 

[CyberPitz]

Maybe they were confused....hopefully at least.

That's just wrong to say \= You don't tell someones girlfriend that. You leave it to them to discuss it. It's a 2 party conversation, never more.

 

[DEATH eVADER]

Friends would never tell of your most intimate secrets (Not saying you have any), unless they went to you instead. It is obvious they have betrayed you