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Lizardizzle

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Okay, so In freshman year of high-school (yes, freshmen year. Probably means nothing, but hey, I was seriously messed up from social bullying in elementary school. I had six years of lonliness behind me and it took it's toll on me, so this was a big deal), I met a girl in my German class and we started "talking" about 3/4ths of the way through the year. I never really had any friends who were girls before then other than life-long family friends, because they all had daughters, but that's different.

So near the end of school she was saying things like "I can't wait to see you next year in German II. You're taking it right?" I have to say that I was pretty happy. It'd be my first girlfriend and based on my past I was pretty lucky.

So the next year started and the first day of school I noticed that she wasn't in class. I assumed that she was either absent or had a different period than I did. But after two weeks I hadn't seen her around campus at all, and I wondered what happened to her. My first guess was that she moved, but it seemed a little extreme. About a month later, I was leaving school and I saw her standing with a bunch of friends at the front of the school. I went over to her and she immediatly noticed me and said that she "didn't like the way [high-school name] did things so she transfered to [high-school name]. she said that she'd probably come over to school every couple of weeks so I didn't bother getting her phone number. I didn't know what to do.

Almost three months past and one day I was sitting at the front of the school doing homework and hoping she'd show up. I looked up and she and a friend walked around the corner and we saw each other. I had no idea what to say, so she said hi and something else, I don't remember, and said she was trying to find someone or something. as she walked away I thought of getting her phone number or SOMETHING but just couldn't bring myself to do anything. She walked off and it was the last time I saw her. I walked home disappointed in myself that I didn't know what to do and didn't even get her e-mail. That was also the last day I waited at the front of the school

A year and a half went by and every now and then I would think about her. I don't know why, but she was just the first girl that seemed to take some sort of interest in me and I couldn't let her memory go.

So any way, just today she added me as a friend on Facebook. Just like that. I don't know what to do. I just needed to type something.

Tl;Dr: what do you do if someone who you thought "liked" you just left you without telling you. Who then adds you as a friend on Facebook almost two years later?
 
long time no see, how've you been, hey what's up, etc etc?
 
I thought I had seen the last of these threads.

Put it in her butt.
 
I will not fall for this trolling.

I also thought lizzardizzle was a girl.
 
omg dude, move on. start talking to other chicks. lifes too short and you have only one life to live. go out there, be nice to girls (or treat them like crap whatever floats their boat) whatever you gotta do to get some. when your my age (26) you'll be kicking yourself over all the girls you shoulda been with.

i could have went to prom with this cute chick but i wimped out and went solo and now i look back and want to bash my face in with a frying pan over it. you've waited long enough for someone, so start looking for one. also i noticed at that age, lets say your not into sports, at the very least start lifting weights or jogging. who knows maybe you'll bump into someone just like that other girl out there.

also this reminds me of my girlfriend in 5th grade who moved away and ever since she left i've been thinking about her from time to time. but seriously move on, there about 3 billion females out there, and roughly 1 billion of those are

ASIAN
 
haha, thanks.

and yeah. I'm no gal.

and it's lizardizzle, not lizzardizzle. git it rit. :l
 
Had a friend who moved to Arizona last year add me on facebook recently. Cool beans. We just sorta said 'hi' to eachother, and he said he was planning on coming back and having a party inwhich his old friends were invited in a few months, so it seems nice.

ANYWAY MAN
JUST GO WITH THE FLOW EVEN IF IT SEEMS HARD
THINK ABOUT WHAT YOU WOULD DO IF YOU WERE IN HER SITUATION
once you learn to think like that, turning the chessboard around, everything is infinitely easier
 
A) Move the **** on already
B) Ask her "WTF?"
C) Move the **** on already
 
Reject her friend request, then delete your facebook account and go outside.
 
I kinda know how you feel. Just friend her and say hi or whatever. If y'all start hanging out again, cool. If not, oh well. You can either move on, or be stuck with a lifetime of regret. Your choice.

I've got people on facebook who I used to hang out with a lot but never hear from anymore. Occasionally I drop a note on their page but mostly we don't talk. It sucks but I'm not constantly miserable about it. And I wouldn't put too much importance on someone facebook friending you two years later. I get friend requests from people who I vaguely know of, but can't even remember whether I knew them from high school or freshman year of college. I can't even tell by looking at their picture. I have to go on their page and look at what school they went to in order to figure it out. Some people just like to send out tons of friend requests.

(oddly enough, nowadays the people I facebook message most often are the ones that I never hung out with much in school... and for some reason I have never facebook messaged anyone I used to or currently hang out with.)
 
Whatever you do, don't tell her you love her right away. You don't want to come across as desperate.
 
She's not The One (also: there is no One).

Therefore, be friendly, ask her what's up, talk to her (not every day) but keep your options open. Don't get sucked into thinking that she's the perfect girl and the only girl who you think has ever liked you and etc. Keep your options open, keep looking around for people, keep positive.
 
I think you should message her a bit on Facebook and tell her how much you think about her and that you've always had these issues and she was the first to show you any sign of affection.

Also, ask her if she'll give you her phone number and address.
 
Start wearing a leather jacket and acting like you don't like her if she starts trying to talk to you, then treat her mean, it always works out well in the films/tvshows/reallife
 
Should have stuck it in her butt when you had the chance.

I remember the hottest girl in the school liked me and I didn't realize it until later.

How clueless are guys? Very. She always talked with me in class and would walk with me afterwards. I could swear she would try to hold my hand near the end of the school year, but maybe I'm just remembering things that didn't happen. Once we got into a discussion about her skirt and her tights and so she lifted her skirt for me once and everything. Her desk was in front of me and she spent half the year turned around laughing at my jokes. (i'm a joker)

I should have put it in her butt, that's what I should have done.

The main thing is guys don't have the confidence that girls do. So when something unbelievable happens, (like a pretty girl seems to be flirting with you), believe it! Seize that moment! **** IT. What's the worst that can happen? Because if you don't try something drastic, you may always regret that moment. FOREVER. DUN DUN DUn
 
Tell her you've become a rich cowboy astronaut.
 
These kind of situations are always a bit difficult the first time round.

You just have to break that outer shell that is holding you back. You're clearly very nervous about the whole thing, and as a result you're probably more afraid of being rejected than anything else. I was the same a few years back before I went to Uni.

Theres a mental barrier you have to break; what other people think about you. You have to realise that the so-called problem of what other people think about you is EXACTLY that. Its what THEY think about you. So its THEIR problem, not yours.

I dont want to sit here and go through the motions that certain people get paid to say for a living like ''How does that make you feel?'', ''Lets explore that further'' and basically pamper you into making yourself feel better about yourself. All I can say is that what you are experiencing is a simple mental barrier.

You feel that youre not good enough for anyone because you were bullied as a kid. But you ARE good enough. Everyone is. You just have to let her see it.
You have to be yourself and not what you think she wants. Because at the end of the day, if she doesnt want what you have, she will never be interested, and trust me, there are PLENTY of other women out there.

As for what to say to her? It doesnt matter. Youre over-complicating it. If what youve said is true, then youve pretty much ALREADY covered the single hardest part; she likes you. If she's coming over to you and saying Hi then she definitely likes you. Not as in she wants to go out (well, maybe not) straight away, but she definitely likes you enough to WANT to talk to you, which is half the battle!
If you sit for ages thinking about WHAT to say, you'll come across as nervous and weird as you'll undoubtedly forgot what you had memorised in your head within 2 seconds of her turning around and looking at you.

Things like ''How heavy is a polar bear? Enough to break the ice, Hi my name is X'' is a serious turnoff to women these days.

The key is to figure out what kind of girl she is, and base your 'moves' you make on her accordingly. And for god sake, flirt with her almost EVERY time you see her. Dont be the kind of guy she comes running to crying, thats the highway to the friend zone and then you'll never have her. ''Awww, I love you too. Like a brother'' = hanging yourself from the bathroom window.

The only way you can know what she's like is by talking to her. And I know thats got you thinking ''but I cant do that'', but you ***king well CAN. Do you not talk to your parents? Do you not talk to friends? Exactly, so you CAN talk to her. You have to stop thinking of what to do or what to say, and just bloody well go over to her, regardless of how many other girls there are with her, and talk to her.

A simple 'Hi' is all you need. ''Long time no see...'' Try to recall what she said to you last time and use that as the conversation opener. The second you feel like youre running out of things to say, timing your exit while the conversation is going WELL is the key to her wanting to see you again.

If youre talking REALLY well with her, shes laughing and all that as I hope youre trying to get her to laugh with suggestive lines and subtle teasing, THATS the time to go against your instinct and say ''Well listen its been great seeing you, but I do have to run. Give me your number and we can get together again some time.''

If she starts making some pathetic excuse just interrupt her playfully and say ''Its just a number (insert name), not a marriage proposal'', or ''Ahhh I see, I get it, you havent paid your phone bill this month. I dont think this is going to work out, as I can see you're the kind of girl that needs a guy with a HUGE...bank account'' and smile so she knows youre teasing and not being serious (as that line can be a little...pushy maybe, or atleast be interperated wrong by her).

Learn some funny and slightly teasing or cocky stuff to say and make it become natural in your everyday conversations with anyone. The more you talk, the better you become at it and the more women you will meet.

Its alot easier than youre making it out to be.
 
Hahaha, oh shit, I live for threads like these. These are the threads I want to see when I log onto HL2.net. And this one's doubly good, because not only is the OP's post hilarious, but everyone else in the thread is trying to give him relationship advice!

He wasn't even in a relationship! Look:

Lizardizzle said:
I met a girl in my German class and we started "talking" about 3/4ths of the way through the year. I never really had any friends who were girls before then other than life-long family friends, because they all had daughters, but that's different.

So near the end of school she was saying things like "I can't wait to see you next year in German II. You're taking it right?" I have to say that I was pretty happy. It'd be my first girlfriend and based on my past I was pretty lucky.
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we started talking
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it'd be my first girlfriend
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HE THINKS SHE WAS HIS GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE SHE TALKED TO HIM


HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


"Hey, hey guys, guys, what would you do if a girl you only talked to for a semester suddenly left? OMG guise we talked in class and that makes her my girlfriend and then she left and I was too chickenshit to even get her number then I go home and make posts about it on the internet guys what do I do guys I thought she liked me but then she just left ;____________________________;"



And everybody else is like, "Friend her!" "Try to act cool so she'll be interested!" "Move on!" "Put it in her butt!"

Oh, this thread is great.
 
Darkside, you're fast and predictable these days.

Have you ever had any sex that was voluntary?
 
Just say "Hey, how've you been? Wanna meet for coffee sometime and catch up?" It's not that difficult, you know.
 
I think you're making to much of this TBH. Forget about it, move on, etc.


HE THINKS SHE WAS HIS GIRLFRIEND BECAUSE SHE TALKED TO HIM

HAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHA
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Yeah I noticed that part too. She was "an acquaintance" at best.
 
Oh come on; girls don't talk to guys unless they want something. (or they work with you)

Has a girl you always liked ever talked to you? Thought not. ;)
 
Say hi, and realize that these things with vaginas are actually human beings capable of carrying complex conversations just the same as us penis-beings.

(kinda)

Darkside55 said:
Hahaha, oh shit, I live for threads like these. These are the threads I want to see when I log onto HL2.net. And this one's doubly good, because not only is the OP's post hilarious, but everyone else in the thread is trying to give him relationship advice!

He wasn't even in a relationship! Look:
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I think he meant "if I somehow managed to pull this off, it WOULD be my first girlfriend".

Hence the apostrophe...
 
Just the fact that he thought talking with her for less than a full semester and her asking if he was going to be in German II next year would lead to her being his girlfriend, that's already too good, man. Like, "She said she wanted to see me in class next year! That means she's interested in me!"
 
Darkside55 said:
Just the fact that he thought talking with her for less than a full semester and her asking if he was going to be in German II next year would lead to her being his girlfriend, that's already too good, man. Like, "She said she wanted to see me in class next year! That means she's interested in me!"
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No argument here

EDIT: I have to stop using the edit button
 
Lizardizzle.

YOU PUSSY. Should have said something man. But don't worry, I am in your situation too. You see, I really like this girl in University. But since we are not in the same course, it's a bit hard to track her down and and have a conversation. Either way, it is likely I will not hook up with her as I am a

PUSSY
 
So near the end of school she was saying things like "I can't wait to see you next year in German II. You're taking it right?" I have to say that I was pretty happy. It'd be my first girlfriend and based on my past I was pretty lucky.
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This is where you went wrong man. You believed in this strange emotion called love. You poor sod. You thought you loved someone. Big mistake. You see, once you love someone, especially when you are in school and in University. It interferes with your study. Then that is potentially bad.

There should only be one true love in your life. Money. Make as shit loads as possible, work your damndest towards this. Despite what the socialists in here may tell you, Money is your one true love. Once you have shit loads of Money, you have the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Don't believe in love bro. Believe in Money. One doesn't cheat on you. One allows you to have everything in the world you desire.
 
lizard, you might just want to consider the fact that this girl is very social and tells anyone she remotely gets close to in class the same words you were given.
 
Shyam said:
This is where you went wrong man. You believed in this strange emotion called love. You poor sod. You thought you loved someone. Big mistake. You see, once you love someone, especially when you are in school and in University. It interferes with your study. Then that is potentially bad.

There should only be one true love in your life. Money. Make as shit loads as possible, work your damndest towards this. Despite what the socialists in here may tell you, Money is your one true love. Once you have shit loads of Money, you have the ultimate aphrodisiac.

Don't believe in love bro. Believe in Money. One doesn't cheat on you. One allows you to have everything in the world you desire.
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And yet you will never have enough to meet those demands. You fail at life.
 
Shift said:
And yet you will never have enough to meet those demands. You fail at life.
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If you do badly you won't. But if you disregard women and acquire currency, you'll have plenty.

Money buys happiness. Anyone who says otherwise has no money.
 
Money buys happiness to certain extents, but then again it depends on the person and what exactly they want from life. For me personally yes, I am generally a lot happier when I have a wod of cash in the bank, but not the same for most :p
 
Shift said:
And yet you will never have enough to meet those demands. You fail at life.
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That excuse is too frequently used by people to cast aspersions on their financial superiors. You will never have enough money to make you happy ? What ? Unless you aspire to live like a king.

Happiness in life. True love. Oh you guise crack me up.
 
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