Ravioli
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sry long text, if you dont want to read then dont. Also, sry for grammar/spelling errors.
ok so il just start from the beginning. My dad has been very weird the past 5 months, me and my mom have both noticed this. It started with him not letting go of his cellphone anywhere, and he often turned it off everytime it called with the excuse "its from work, i dont want to talk" which is strange because he always takes calls from work, later my mom checked his cellphone when he was sleeping, and found that he had msged someone saying "sorry, my wife was in the car, not a good time to talk". Also, hes been lying....a lot. For example, my mom wanted a ride to her friend, but my dad refused, saying he had an important meeting, so he left. My mom decided to figure out wtf was going on, so she took the bus to his job, and looked around the parkinglot. My dads car wasnt there, so she calls him and asks where he is at, and he says hes at work. Then about 30 minutes later, she sees him driving in and parking. Later the same day, she notices how he secretly throws reciets in the trashcan, so when she took it out, she digged in it and found them. Apparantly, the time she called him when he was supposedly "at work" he was at a cafe drinking champane.
Now the most strangest thing happened, i walked out to the living room, and he has his shoes on and hes reaching for the keys on the table. I noticed i catched him off guard because he got real nervous (this was 1am btw), i ask him where he is going, and he says "uhm...ehh.i was...uhh..going to the garage, to look for the monitor for the computer" (one of our computers doesnt have a monitor,my friend borrowed it, he knows that). Time passes and hes acting strange, nervous, pretends hes doing something, says weird things, tries to joke the situation off. I go into my room, and 5 minutes later he comes in and says "i left my cellphone in the car, brb", i walk into the living room (before he had the chance to leave) and the cellphone is right there on the table, clear in view, so i tell him "its right there". Nervously he says "what?? ohh..ehh..yeah...i didnt see it". He sits down at the couch, still with his shoes on. I walk back to my room, then i walk out again, catching him going for the door, he turns around and walks to the bathroom instead. I go back to my room once AGAIN, and this time i stay and i listen, i hear him closing the entrance door, so i walk up to the door and look through the little thingy, and i see him holding a plastic bag while waiting for the elevator, he disapears. I wake my mom up telling her the story, then the doorbell rings, apparently he forgot his keys. I can talk to him using the voice comm, and i ask him "what are you doing? why did you go out without telling me?" and he tries to laugh it away "oh heheh notihng i just..uhh..got to do something in the car". I continue to question him "no really...what were you doing???" and he gets angry "just open the door".... "no, what were you doing out there???" "JUST...OPEN...THE..DOOR". So i open. He comes back up and i question him once more, and he nervously answers "oh nothing i just...ehh..had to..get some papers from the car". But he didnt have any papers with him so i tell him that and he responds "no i just...had to check if they were in the car, its all good now".
This time i question him for real, i look at him and say "dad...what the hell is going on? what are you doing?". He gets super nervous, shaking, he plays with his keys, trying to fix something with the keychain. "nothing, what???" he replies. "dad...going out 1am? stupid reasons to go out? you acting weird? im not stupid". Once again, he assures me nothing is wrong, but i can see it in his face, hes lying. He never lies, and im really taking it hard. Never have my dad lied this much to me...not to my mom either. I dont know what to do...i cant believe hes doing this to us. My mom is to scared to confront him.
So...what do you guys think?
ok so il just start from the beginning. My dad has been very weird the past 5 months, me and my mom have both noticed this. It started with him not letting go of his cellphone anywhere, and he often turned it off everytime it called with the excuse "its from work, i dont want to talk" which is strange because he always takes calls from work, later my mom checked his cellphone when he was sleeping, and found that he had msged someone saying "sorry, my wife was in the car, not a good time to talk". Also, hes been lying....a lot. For example, my mom wanted a ride to her friend, but my dad refused, saying he had an important meeting, so he left. My mom decided to figure out wtf was going on, so she took the bus to his job, and looked around the parkinglot. My dads car wasnt there, so she calls him and asks where he is at, and he says hes at work. Then about 30 minutes later, she sees him driving in and parking. Later the same day, she notices how he secretly throws reciets in the trashcan, so when she took it out, she digged in it and found them. Apparantly, the time she called him when he was supposedly "at work" he was at a cafe drinking champane.
Now the most strangest thing happened, i walked out to the living room, and he has his shoes on and hes reaching for the keys on the table. I noticed i catched him off guard because he got real nervous (this was 1am btw), i ask him where he is going, and he says "uhm...ehh.i was...uhh..going to the garage, to look for the monitor for the computer" (one of our computers doesnt have a monitor,my friend borrowed it, he knows that). Time passes and hes acting strange, nervous, pretends hes doing something, says weird things, tries to joke the situation off. I go into my room, and 5 minutes later he comes in and says "i left my cellphone in the car, brb", i walk into the living room (before he had the chance to leave) and the cellphone is right there on the table, clear in view, so i tell him "its right there". Nervously he says "what?? ohh..ehh..yeah...i didnt see it". He sits down at the couch, still with his shoes on. I walk back to my room, then i walk out again, catching him going for the door, he turns around and walks to the bathroom instead. I go back to my room once AGAIN, and this time i stay and i listen, i hear him closing the entrance door, so i walk up to the door and look through the little thingy, and i see him holding a plastic bag while waiting for the elevator, he disapears. I wake my mom up telling her the story, then the doorbell rings, apparently he forgot his keys. I can talk to him using the voice comm, and i ask him "what are you doing? why did you go out without telling me?" and he tries to laugh it away "oh heheh notihng i just..uhh..got to do something in the car". I continue to question him "no really...what were you doing???" and he gets angry "just open the door".... "no, what were you doing out there???" "JUST...OPEN...THE..DOOR". So i open. He comes back up and i question him once more, and he nervously answers "oh nothing i just...ehh..had to..get some papers from the car". But he didnt have any papers with him so i tell him that and he responds "no i just...had to check if they were in the car, its all good now".
This time i question him for real, i look at him and say "dad...what the hell is going on? what are you doing?". He gets super nervous, shaking, he plays with his keys, trying to fix something with the keychain. "nothing, what???" he replies. "dad...going out 1am? stupid reasons to go out? you acting weird? im not stupid". Once again, he assures me nothing is wrong, but i can see it in his face, hes lying. He never lies, and im really taking it hard. Never have my dad lied this much to me...not to my mom either. I dont know what to do...i cant believe hes doing this to us. My mom is to scared to confront him.
So...what do you guys think?
